Ever since I started seeking information online for a “healthy hair journey” I have heard the do’s and BIG DON’TS of growing beautiful healthy hair. No more hair grease, petroleum jelly (Vaseline), pink lotion, mineral oil or CONES. If this natural hair thing is new to you then you might not know what “cones” are. 
How are cones bad for your hair?
Well that is a matter of opinion. Cones smooth the cuticles of the hair down effectively sealing in moisture. Sealing in moisture is a good thing. The problem is some forms do a better job than others. The issue becomes build up. If cones are allowed to accumulate on the hair they can hold moisture out as much as they held moisture in. When the original moisture dries up you won’t be able to moisturize your hair again because of the silicone barrier/build up. Not being able to moisturize leads to dryness and breakage. Its a vicious cycle. There is a solution though. You can use only water soluble cones as they will probably come off with a sulfate free shampoo or even co-washing. This includes Bis-PEG-8 and PEG-8 Dimethicone amongst others.
For non water-soluble silicones it can be a vicious cycle. There is a solution though. Clarifying shampoo and sulfate shampoos can remove product buildup including even the most harsh cones like dimethicone.
If you decide to try the “Curly Girl Method” then you will probably be avoiding cones all together but if not then you don’t have to avoid them like the plague, especially if they work for you and your hair’s needs. Just know how to handle any issues that may arise.
Do you still use silicones? Let me know in the comments below.

wow…..
i actually never understood why some women claimed to have hair that “loved” silicones. I just figured it was something that they were used to using so they assumed their hair loved it, too. Either way, it didn’t bother me if it works for them. But, I never knew that having high porosity strands could mean that cones (to a certain extent) are actually a GOOD thing?!
I have low porosity hair but I’ve been preaching to the visitors on my website for the last year that cone are the devil. Looks like I need to update lol.